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<\/p>\nParenting is not an easy job at all; it requires sacrifice, effort, energy, and constant search for new and effective methods of upbringing, i.e., continuous education.<\/p>\n
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Modern educational theories have significantly contributed to the crisis of parental authority. By “mixing the pots,” the vertical relationship of parents to children as someone superior has changed into a horizontal relationship, where children issue orders and their will is respected out of fear that the child will not love the parents if their demands are not met. Modern theories have created a bad reputation for the vertical relationship between parents and children, even though that relationship implied that the parent should be an authority, i.e., superior, and advocate for an equal relationship where parents are positioned as the child\u2019s best friend. Can this actually work?<\/p>\n
First, parents must understand that just because they have become parents, it does not mean they automatically have authority; it is not self-evident but must be built and earned. Respect born out of fear is not authority but a well-used emotional manipulation of children. Such a relationship manipulates the child’s fear, resulting in unconditional obedience. This type of relationship leads to a cold emotional bond.<\/p>\n
Authority, in one word, means trust; the child believes that everything the parents do is for their good and is ready to listen. Authority is established from the first day of birth. It must exist, meaning there must be boundaries, and the child must know that you can control the situation.<\/p>\n
There are several types of authority in parenting:<\/p>\n
Parenting is not an easy job at all; it requires sacrifice, effort, energy, and constant search for new and effective methods of upbringing, i.e., continuous education. Modern educational theories have significantly contributed to the crisis of parental authority. By “mixing the pots,” the vertical relationship of parents to children as someone superior has changed into […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3988,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3987","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n